Whether you say you can, or you say you can’t’, your right!
Are you perhaps like many of us who trip ourselves up from time to time by saying, “I can’t”?
I find myself quickly saying it when I feel particularly challenged by a situation or challenge. Last week, I said to my husband, “I just cannot get out of a bunker” while playing golf. And guess what? I didn’t get out! I predicted my shot by announcing, “I can’t.”
A client recently told me, “I just cannot stay in my marriage. Nothing we do makes a difference. And I told my husband I want us to separate.”
And my client was, without a doubt, in a state of despair and giving up by saying, “I can’t anymore.”
I know those moments of despair and giving up so well. As I guess some of you do too?
So, what can you do when you feel you “can’t?”
I want to share with you what my client did. She told her husband she wants a separation, and he said, “we can’t separate.” To her absolute surprise, he suggested she books a consultation for them both with me!! That is after he resisted any help.
I helped them, in the usual way, I help my clients, to shift their blockages and obstacles, using my “Balance Model.” They broke through from “we can’t make this work” to “we can change and stay together.”
Hallelujah, another marriage saved and one less statistic.
You might know this already, and I regularly share it with my clients….the fact that nothing will change if you do nothing to change yourself.
Are you ready to grow yourself so you can say, “yes, I can overcome any challenge, shift any blockage and step forward victoriously?”
Then show up for yourself, take action. Be the change you wish to see.
Message me “I can” or email me email@example.com to find out how you can get the help you need to be change you wish to see.
And even if you’re not quite sure IF you’re ready, message me anyway and let’s explore how to get you unstuck.