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Do you want more romance in your relationship?

March 25, 2021 By Ilze Alberts

If more romance is your need, your desire, then it is up to YOU to take the lead and make it happen.

If you think back to the beginning stages of a relationship, you will find that there was an abundance of one thing.

The thing that had you feeling as if you were floating on a fluffy pink cloud of happiness.

And that you were the luckiest person in the world.

  • That thing is romance.
  • The frequent date nights.
  • The endless phone calls and text messages.
  • The spontaneous trips and surprise gifts.


All of this shows how invested we are — how much we value the other person, their company, and the relationship.

As relationships progress, starry-eyed gazes gradually turn into reality-seeing gazes, and partners are able to see that the other brings just as many pains and challenges as they do pleasures and positives. 

The infatuation phase passes, and the romance lessens.

Not because the connection between partners has become stale, but because the glue between them has gotten stronger — and they no longer have to work as hard to hold each other’s attention.

In working with couples, I’ve found that it is always the one partner (not both) that says, “I really want my partner to be more romantic with me.”

I then ask, “What do you perceive is romance?” and “What things have your partner done in the past that you thought was romantic?

Clients often mention surprise dates or having received flowers or special gifts from their partners — things that make them feel important. 

They have an expectation that it is up to the partner to perform these acts of romance.

However, if YOU are the one that wishes for more romance, it isn’t up to your partner to make it happen.

It is up to YOU. 

Of course, you can communicate to your partner (without criticising, blaming, or pointing fingers) that you would like to have more romance in the relationship.

But I encourage YOU to take action and bring more romance into your relationship.

If you want date nights, YOU make the arrangements. 

If you want loving text messages, YOU start by sending the first one(s). 

And, if you want to be surprised by your partner, YOU surprise him/her first.

You will soon see that what you give out will come back to you. 
Learn more about bringing romance into your relationship by watching my recorded live stream here: 

As I love to tell my clients, “Be the change you wish to see in your relationship.”

Whether that change relates to romance, communication, or conflict resolution.

Learning how to step up, take accountability, and implement (healthy) changes in your own behaviours and attitudes will pave the way for a thriving relationship that lasts. 

Because the first step in growing your relationship is growing yourself. 

Here is a great action step for you – buy my affordable online program called Build Thriving Relationships That Last.

More About the Program::
 
When does the course commence?

Building Thriving Relationships That Last launches on Monday 5th April 2021. However, you can join in at any time.
 
How much is the course?

4-week online video training: R497
(Every week for four weeks, a video of me teaching you relationship skills and techniques will be released and will remain available to you for as long as you wish.)

Add-on: Weekly group sessions
An additional R497 (Total: R994)

For an additional R497, you will receive support from me through my exclusive Facebook group, Build thriving relationships that last,  weekly group sessions.

* At the end of the four weeks, you will no longer be a part of the Facebook group and group sessions. Should you wish to remain on both for a further 4 weeks, you can do so for another R497.

When and where do the weekly group sessions take place?

The group sessions take place every Tuesday (for 4 weeks) from 18h00 to 19h00 (South African Time) on Zoom.

What can I expect from the weekly group sessions?

The group sessions allow me to offer you additional teaching, guidance, and support. I will answer your questions and help you apply what I teach in the online videos.

You are encouraged to partake in these sessions as much (or less) as you like.

You can choose to mute yourself, turn off your camera, or come in completely.

Can I purchase the online teaching videos and later decide to purchase the group sessions?

Absolutely! If you have watched all the videos and later decide that you would like to join the group sessions, you can do so.

*It is advisable to join the group sessions at the beginning of a month to get the most out of them.

How can I book for this course?
You can purchase this course online:
https://ilzealberts.isorise.com/build-thriving-relationships-that-last

Don’t know if this course is the right fit for you?
Of cause it is if you wish to build thriving relationships that last.

Book now: 

https://ilzealberts.isorise.com/build-thriving-relationships-that-last

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