“The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.”
Nelson Mandela
If you have wanted to do something then found yourself face to face with FEAR, unable to do the thing you really wanted to do, just know that you are not alone.
We all experience fear in some form or another.
Fear, left unchecked, can be hindering. Crippling. Debilitating.
It can stop you from saying yes to life-changing opportunities.
It can stand solidly in your path, preventing you from living your best life.
So, what exactly is fear?
Fear is the assumption that you are going to experience something—in the near or distant future— that will be more painful than pleasurable or more negative than positive.
There are seven areas of life that you can SHINE in:
- Physical
- Social
- Familial
- Financial
- Vocational
- Mental
- Spiritual
However, there are certain fears that can pop up from time to time in those seven areas of life, and they can stop you from shining. These fears are:
1. Physical fear
This fear has to do with your physical appearance, age, health, or vitality. You fear that you may not be attractive enough, old/young enough, or aren’t in the best of health to do what you would most love to do.
2. Social fear
If you have a social fear, you are afraid of being rejected by your circle of friends, colleagues, and acquaintances. You fear that whatever action you take could result in you losing their acceptance.
3. Familial fear
With this type of fear, you worry that you may lose the respect of your family, or the opportunity of spending time with them should you chose to do what you love.
4. Financial fear
If you are afraid of losing/wasting/not making enough money, then you have a financial fear.
5. Vocational (Career) fear
If you have a vocational fear, you are afraid of failing or being unsuccessful in your chosen career or business venture.
6. Mental fear
With a mental fear, you worry that you are not smart enough or educated enough to do the thing you love. You are afraid of not having adequate intelligence and/or knowledge to achieve your goals.
7. Spiritual fear
If you have this type of fear, it means that you are afraid of breaking the moral or ethical code of some perceived spiritual authority you look up to. You fear that you may gain their disapproval and lose your “virtue” should you break certain morals and ethics.
So, what type of fear is stopping you from shining like the star you were born to be?
If you are still a bit uncertain and would like more clarity on these 7 fears, this video can help you:
In this video, I’m:
- Breaking down the 7 fears to give you a better understanding of them.
- Helping you get clear on the fear(s) holding you back from living the life your heart so desires.
- Showing you how to own your value.
I want you to know that fear doesn’t have to be the big bad wolf blocking your path.
Fear can be your inner advisor, tapping you on the shoulder and saying, “I think you have some unbalanced perceptions you need to work on.”
In my online course, 8 Weeks to Shine, I teach you how to receive those messages fear is sending you, balance your perceptions, master all 7 areas of life, and so much more…
Email me at ilze@ilzeallberts.com if you would like to know how else
8-weeks to SHINE can help you take charge of your life and be the best version of you, you can be. I am launching the next 8-weeks to SHINE in the second week of January 2021.
I will set up a call with you so we can chat.
This is what one 44-year old business man said to me about his experience of this online program:
“I feel I am walking on water after the teaching and one-one-one time with you. Thank you for changing my perceptions that my failed business was in my way to showing me how it was ON my way to live my successful and wealthy life.”
From my heart to yours,
Ilze